第六課｜小組的四個週期
Session 6 | The Four Phases of a Small Group
核心思想｜Big Idea
小組好比一個生命體，有起有落，但當我們願意跟隨神，小組可以不斷成長、成熟，甚至成為祝福別人的群體。
A small group is like a living organism. It has seasons of growth and struggle, but as we faithfully follow God, it can continually mature and become a blessing to others.
「惟用愛心說誠實話，凡事長進，連於元首基督。」（以弗所書 4:15–16）
"Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of Him who is the head, that is, Christ." (Ephesians 4:15–16, NIV)
引言｜Introduction
過去五課，我們一起思想成熟門徒的生命，也學習按著不同人的屬靈旅程彼此同行，建立真誠的關係和信任，並透過 Welcome、Worship、Word 和 Witness，一起建立健康的小組。然而，即使是一個健康的小組，也不會一直停留在同一個階段。
正如一個人由嬰孩成長至成熟，小組同樣會經歷不同的季節：由最初彼此陌生，到漸漸建立關係，也可能經歷衝突和調整，最後成熟到能夠彼此扶持、向外拓展，甚至差派組員建立新的小組。
若我們不了解小組會經歷這些自然的季節，很容易在關係出現張力時感到灰心，甚至誤以為小組已經失敗。但當我們明白這是成長必經的過程，我們便能以信心和耐心，陪伴小組走過每一個階段。
In the previous five sessions, we explored the life of a mature disciple, learned to walk alongside people at different stages of their spiritual journey, cultivated authentic relationships and trust, and discovered the Four W's of a healthy small group. Yet even a healthy group does not remain in the same season forever.
Just as a person grows from infancy to maturity, a small group also moves through different seasons—from initial unfamiliarity, to deepening relationships, through seasons of conflict and adjustment, and eventually to a maturity where members support one another, reach outward, and even send people out to start new groups.
Without understanding these natural seasons, we may grow discouraged when tension arises, mistaking it for failure. But when we recognise this as a normal part of growth, we can walk through each stage with faith and patience.
請看看這張圖｜Looking at the Diagram
這張圖描繪了小組生命成長的四個階段，每一個階段，都有神想我們學習的功課。
**第一階段：認識探索期。**這是小組剛剛建立的時期。組員彼此還在認識、探索，最重要的功課，是建立根基，也建立一種讓人感到安全的氣氛，使每一位組員都願意敞開自己。
**第二階段：衝突變遷期。**當關係漸漸加深，彼此的期望也會提升，衝突開始浮現。這並不代表小組失敗，反而是關係邁向成熟必經的過程。這個階段最重要的，是願意調整方向、增加信任，讓衝突成為彼此更深認識的機會，而不是關係破裂的原因。
**第三階段：合群外展期。**經過衝突與調整，小組的關係漸漸穩固，彼此願意支持、一起服侍、向外擴展。這是小組最甜蜜、最有活力的階段——成員彼此坦誠交往，互相支持，也開始把目光從小組內部，轉向小組以外需要福音的人。
**第四階段：倍增更新期。**小組進一步成熟，開始再次突破，甚至差派組員建立新的小組，讓更多人有機會經歷屬靈家庭的生活。這個階段的小組，不再只滿足於自己的需要，而是願意外展服侍、開新境界，祝福更多的人。
This diagram describes four stages in the life of a small group, each carrying its own lessons from God.
Stage One: Exploration Phase. This is when a group is newly formed. Members are still getting to know one another. The most important task is to build a foundation of safety, so that everyone feels free to open up.
Stage Two: Transition Phase. As relationships deepen, expectations rise, and conflict begins to surface. This does not mean the group has failed—it is a necessary part of growing toward maturity. The key task in this stage is to adjust direction and deepen trust, allowing conflict to become an opportunity for deeper understanding rather than a cause for division.
Stage Three: Expansion Phase. Having worked through conflict and adjustment, the group's relationships become stronger. Members support one another, serve together, and begin reaching outward. This is often the most vibrant season—marked by open communication, mutual support, and a shift from focusing inward to reaching those beyond the group who need the gospel.
Stage Four: Multiplication and Renewal Phase. The group matures further, breaking through to new levels of growth, and may even send members out to begin new groups so that more people can experience spiritual family. A group in this stage is no longer content to meet only its own needs; it actively serves, expands, and blesses many others.
若偏離使命，小組也會走向衰退｜When a Group Drifts from Its Mission, It Can Also Decline
這張圖也誠實地提醒我們：小組若不持續跟隨神的帶領，同樣可能停滯，甚至衰退。
當小組失去真實，關係漸漸變淡，大家只想維持表面和諧；當小組開始向內保護，拒絕改變與突破，成長便會停止；當服侍減少，只滿足自己的需要，小組便會失去對外的吸引力；當新人不來，成員流失，小組便會漸漸失去活力；當氣氛沉悶，熱情和愛心冷卻，小組便會失去起初的甘甜；最終，若這些警號一直被忽略，小組便可能解散——生命停滯，見證消失。
這些徵兆並不是要使我們懼怕，而是提醒我們及早警覺。健康的小組不是永遠不會面對挑戰，而是願意誠實面對這些警號，重新回到神面前，回應祂的帶領。
This diagram also honestly reminds us that a group which drifts from its mission can stagnate or even decline.
When a group loses authenticity, relationships grow cold and members merely try to keep the peace. When a group turns inward for protection, resisting change and breakthrough, growth stops. When service decreases, and the group only seeks to satisfy its own needs, it loses its appeal to others. When no new people come, members eventually leave. When the atmosphere grows dull, passion fades and love grows cold. Finally, if these warning signs are ignored, a group may disband—its life stagnates, and its witness disappears.
These warning signs are not meant to instil fear but to help us stay alert. A healthy small group is not one that never faces challenges, but one that is willing to honestly face these warning signs and return to God, responding afresh to His leading.
神使群體漸漸成長｜God Grows His People Together
聖經形容教會是一個身體，也是一個不斷成長的群體。保羅提醒信徒，當我們「用愛心說誠實話」，整個身體便會在基督裡一同成長，並且彼此建立。（弗4:15–16）
因此，小組的目標，不是停留在合群外展期的高峰不動，也不是害怕經歷衝突變遷期的張力，而是願意平衡活出相交、成長、事奉、佈道、敬拜的生命，緊緊跟隨神的使命，持續彼此相愛、服侍、外展，讓小組能夠經歷高峰、突破高峰，避免走向衰退。
Scripture describes the church as a body that grows together. Paul reminds believers that as we "speak the truth in love," the whole body matures in Christ and builds itself up in love. (Ephesians 4:15–16)
The goal of a small group, therefore, is not to remain fixed at the peak of the Expansion Phase, nor to fear the tension of the Transition Phase. Rather, it is to live a balanced life of fellowship, growth, service, mission, and worship—staying close to God's mission, continuing to love, serve, and reach outward, so the group may experience peaks, breakthroughs, and avoid the path of decline.
結語｜Conclusion
一個健康的小組，不會一直停留在同一個階段，也不需要與其他小組比較速度。神會按著不同群體的需要，帶領他們經歷不同的成長歷程。
小組不是為了長久存在，而是為了讓生命成熟，並被差遣祝福更多的人。無論小組正在認識探索期，還是已經進入倍增更新期，我們真正需要關心的，不是走得有多快，而是是否願意忠心回應神在這個階段的帶領。
六課的學習雖然告一段落，但建立健康小組的旅程才剛剛開始。願神繼續帶領我們，在每一個季節忠心跟隨祂，也讓我們所屬的小組，成為一個彼此牧養、彼此建立、一起見證基督的屬靈群體。
A healthy small group does not remain in the same season forever, nor does it need to compare its pace with other groups. God leads each community according to its unique needs.
Small groups are not meant to last forever, but to see lives mature and be sent out to bless more people. Whether a group is in the Exploration Phase or the Multiplication and Renewal Phase, our greatest concern is not how quickly it progresses, but whether it is faithfully responding to God's leading in this season.
Although this series comes to an end, the journey of building healthy small groups has only just begun. May God continue to lead us faithfully through every season, so that our small groups become communities where believers shepherd one another, build one another up, and bear witness to Christ together.
Reflection｜反思
回顧過去一段時間，你認為你們的小組目前正處於認識探索期、衝突變遷期、合群外展期，還是倍增更新期？你觀察到哪些具體的跡象？
Looking back, which stage best describes your small group right now—Exploration, Transition, Expansion, or Multiplication and Renewal? What specific signs led you to that conclusion?
Discussion｜討論
在「為何會衰退」的六個警號中（失去真實、向內保護、服侍減少、新人不來、氣氛沉悶、最終解散），你認為你們小組目前最需要警惕的是哪一個？作為組員，你可以如何幫助小組避免走向這個警號？
Among the six warning signs of decline (loss of authenticity, turning inward, less service, no newcomers, a dull atmosphere, eventual disbandment), which one do you think your group most needs to guard against? As a member, how can you help prevent your group from drifting in that direction？
Practice｜實踐
與組員一起禱告，並為未來三個月訂立一項共同成長的目標，幫助小組從目前的階段，忠心邁向下一步——例如：若在衝突變遷期，可以約定一次坦誠溝通的機會；若在合群外展期，可以計劃一次共同服侍或外展行動；若已在倍增更新期，可以開始禱告和裝備，預備差派組員建立新的小組。
Pray together as a small group and set one shared goal for the next three months to help your group faithfully move toward its next step—for example, if you are in the Transition Phase, plan a time for honest conversation; if in the Expansion Phase, plan a shared act of service or outreach; if already in the Multiplication and Renewal Phase, begin praying and preparing to send members out to start a new group.
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